Just a quick post tonight, I just got home from Timmy Nolans (went there because was seeing Rachel on her night off and she won't go east of Burbank unless it's to go to Sephora) and Jen and Jenn came too. We were celebrating the touches and I had a few beers and the calamari which was great as always.
So excited to see if something is on the USCIS website about our NOA2. All of this is so great, with Julian coming in about 3 weeks and the house and evrything. So happy that I'm friends with Sean again and Alex isn't being such an asshole anymore.
I know I had to be ready for people being rude when I opened comments again. I am not an alcoholic and J is not a drug addict! I happen to have a few drinks a week, not a lot. I don't need to drink to relax or anything. I can't believe people think I have a problem! Yeah, I went out tonight. To celebrate. And I ate and everything! And Julian does not have a cocaine addiction. That whole thing with the picture was a JOKE with flour not cocaine. And anyway, it's been months since Julian did cocaine. God.
I'm going to bed. Hopefully there will be good news in the morning! Many thanks to the people who have been so nice to me recently on here and on VJ. It means so much to me.
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Hahahaha! "Flour not cocaine". That is actually hilarious. Is that what Julian told you? There really are no words. How stupid can one person be?
ReplyDeleteReally? I just posted this and already someone has a negative comment? God.
ReplyDeleteYes, it was FLOUR and it was all a stupid joke that Alex set up. Julian was drunk and honestly can't remember any of it. It was his friend Amanda who was there and she can barely remember it either. They guess they thought it was funny at the time and didn't know Alex was taking a picture. It was stupid and Julian has apologized to me and it is FINE. It was in bad taste and Alex only did it so he could bother me and remind me of when we were going out. Happy?
I am more shocked at the comment that "it's been months since Julian did cocaine"
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That was a typo. I meant years. He tried some when he was 15 or something. That was 10 years ago.
ReplyDeleteA typo is when you accidentally type "moths" instead of "months". I don't believe that was a typo at all...
ReplyDeleteJust FYI-my ex-husband was given a 3 year ban several years ago for "drug use" despite the fact that he had only experimented with cocaine as a teenager as well but 3 months before the medical "tasted" some...didn't use it but tasted it...our relationship didn't survive that ordeal...immigration takes these things very seriously, you have to be 3 years completely drug free and especially if there's photographic evidence it's going to be hard to prove your point. Signing my name since some from VJ will probably remember me anyway from this story-the other Melissa
ReplyDeleteIf she had a nickel for every red flag, Melissa would be rich and wouldn't have to import a rich husband. I think she's willingly overlooking all of the danger signals because being pampered and having nice things is obviously more important to her than a safe and stable relationship. Too bad all those nice things will probably all eventually wind up Julian's nose. I'm still trying to figure out what Julian gets out of this though.
ReplyDeleteHe gets to manipulate and control her. Plus it gives him the opportunity to expand his company into the States.
ReplyDeleteI can't believe some of the things you people are writing. Julian does not take drugs! Period! He tried it ONCE when he was a CHILD. That photo is not evidence and has been destroyed. I typed months because I was so tired last night. And he is marrying me because he LOVES me and wants to be with me. I am marrying him for the same reasons!
ReplyDeletecongrats on your almost noa2
ReplyDeleteYou said in THIS blog that you didn't destroy the photo. Why must you turn Blogspot into a house of lies?
ReplyDeleteHa ha. How funny, house of lies. I got rid of the photo a few days ago. I talked with Julian and I told him I felt there was no good in keeping it. It is GONE.
ReplyDeleteSome of "us people" have been there, done that, and were interested in helping...apparently my time could have been put to better use elsewhere. Sorry for butting in... -the other Melissa
ReplyDeleteHonestly I think some people are going too far here. If someone were to post on VJ that their fiancee had dabbled in drugs when they were 15, people wouldn't care. In fact, they would advise not to even mention it at the medical because of situations where the person had an unnecessary denial. And suggesting that Melissa has an alcohol addiction because she likes a glass of wine at night? How many people here don't enjoy that?
ReplyDeleteThis is more about the fact that it's Melissa and Julian, not the issues. If you're going to be nitpicking like that, at least identify yourselves, and stop hiding behind anonymity.
-Gemmie
Well now it all appears clearly. Julian only wants to immigrate to the states for the better quality of blow.
ReplyDeleteI didn't mean to offend the other Melissa; I think what you had to say was useful and I'm really sorry to hear about you and your ex-husband. You have been really polite and kind and I'm sorry about that.
ReplyDeleteGemmie -- thank you! Julian tried cocaine once or twice when he was 15. It was a very long time ago. I think I would know if he was using coke! It's true that Alex does, but Julian has told me many, many times that he is happy to have a drink but he will not do drugs so if Alex offers it to him he won't, especially since he knows it could affect the visa.
We still haven't had the NOA2 yet and we're waiting. Julian is relaxed but I'm dying to just have it!
Oh, and I am SICK of hearing that Julian is somehow doing this only to expand his business. That is the craziest thing I have ever heard. He is moving here because he loves me and I don't want to move to England right now. I know he wants to move back someday, but right now I want to be HERE in California and he understands that means he has to be here too.
ReplyDeleteThese two don't even really exist. Like, for real.
ReplyDeleteMy God but you people really need to get a life. This is why I don't even bother reading my own fiancee's blog: morons like you lot. Seriously get a life and fuck off. Go live your perfect lives where you've never made a single mistake somewhere else. Or at least have the courage to put your names on your comments. Fucking cowards, I hope you enjoyed making her cry.
ReplyDeleteIf I hadn't mentioned it before, it's almost scary how in Melissa I see myself a few years back (and she is around the same age I was when I was dealing with similar issues). People were just as rude to me back then, it's probably no longer on VJ because it was back in 2005 when we had our "drug" drama...but anyway I learned at that time to be very selective about how much I let people in on things that may be considered controversial in my life. For example, if I have a problem that's not obviously life altering, it's better to pretend in public like nothing is happening rather than have to go back and clean up the mess afterwards. I hope by my post Julian and Melissa didn't think I was trying to portray myself as perfect. Rather, I was pointing out a potential area of concern based on a problem I had to face in my not-perfect life. It was a situation where I wished I had someone who had gone before me to learn what not to do. I'm sorry if anything I said made you cry, Melissa. I remember crying about the horrible things people said about my ex on the internet. It's hard to say everything I'd like to say on a comment so I'll leave it at that. Hope today's a better day! --the other Melissa
ReplyDeleteThank you Melissa. I don't feel very well today though. I think the stress is getting to me because I spent most of last night feeling really sick and I barely slept. I spent a couple of hours in the middle of the night talking to Julian about how unhappy I feel and I almost wanted to give it all up and just move to England. He was wonderful and made me feel protected and loved and it's through his love that I can keep going on.
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ReplyDeleteNice one, "barf". Melissa's clearly in a lot of pain worrying about the process. Way to show some compassion. Oh wait, you're a VJer and I think you're stripped of compassion after you get four blue boxes under your name.
ReplyDeleteMeagan....
ReplyDeletePiling on compassion in heaps seemingly is suffocating ANY ability or desire from her to cope like someone of her age really needs to right now.....It's a fair bet that most reading this blog have experienced the Visa process and all the complications/difficulties that come with it. I have. I have compassion but it's hard to mix it with healthy adult respect when Melissa acts like a 14 year old. Everyone bags on Julian for being controling or whatever-but-if these characters are really real and not some bored person's way of passing time- is it any wonder he is controlling? Really? She portrays herself as someone who needs to be told what to do.
*Still do not feel sorry for them....I trust her to get through, which is better than just arbitrarily heaping on oodles of insincere bull.
--tmma ( VJ)
BTW- I am not the one who said 'barf'....
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tmma -- I totally get what you're saying here. Melissa really DOES need to grow up some, and maybe I am too indulging of someone who has been indulged for a while. I guess it's because my first instinct whenever I see little wounded (whether they are really or not) creatures is to gather them and start trying to fix things. I've stepped away recently because I realise there is nothing I can do to help bar listen to Melissa.
ReplyDeleteMeagan, thanks for replying! maybe listening is all that's needed, I don't know. I just cannot help wishing ( in the few times i've come to this blog) that she would grow up and be the woman we all know she can be--and it's my personality that gets sort of 'irritated' by the lack of common sense/assertiveness. maybe that's my fault. I don't know.
ReplyDeletei just cannot help thinking that this is a train wreck progressivly getting worse and i keep wishing the drivers would do something.
Advise to Melissa ( no one asked for but you going to get)...I've been there-done that. Your fiance is moving 4500 miles to live in another country at your request to the Government. YOU are the driver of this bus right now. For yourself, you need to calm down, stop freaking over stuff that doesn't matter and start sorting out the stuff that does.
-tmma